Today, I'm going to talk about a topic that is taboo for many, but for me it was one of the most important lessons in life. I'm going to talk about how I lost certain friends over the years and why I feel completely at peace about it today. You know that feeling when you try to keep someone in your life just because you've known them since childhood, even though you feel that person is only draining you? I decided I wasn't going to do that anymore.
For a long time, I thought that having a lot of friends was proof that you were successful or popular. But when I started really working on myself and listening to my intuition, the circle of people around me began to shrink naturally. And it was no coincidence. When your energy changes and you begin to understand your worth, some people simply can't keep up with you anymore. They start throwing it in your face that you've changed, that you're "weird," or they even start bothering you about things that aren't important at all.
I realized that some people weren't my friends because of me, but because of what they got from me. When I started setting boundaries and clearly saying "no," those people fell away on their own. And you know what? It's the best thing that could have happened to me. Why would I waste my energy on someone who doesn't support me, who doesn't understand me, or who even tries to hold me back?
If you find yourself in a situation where you realize that your circle of people is disappearing, don't worry. Losing friends who no longer fit into your life is actually a sign of your progress. It means you've made room for the right people who will accept you exactly as you are—with all your flaws, your ideas, and your truth.
My personality is such that I won't pretend to be friends just to be liked by everyone. If our paths no longer lead in the same direction, there is a door. My life is too precious to waste on people who don't see in me what I see in myself. Today, I may have fewer people around me, but those who are here are the right ones. And that's all that matters.
Don't be afraid of silence or empty space in your life. That space is meant for you and your peace. When you are at peace with yourself, you realize that you are never really alone, but only in better company—your own.
Hugs, Eva
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