Today, I'm going to talk about what it's like to be self-taught in the world of blogging and how to deal with those who constantly give you advice but wouldn't lift a finger themselves. When I started this blog almost seven years ago, I couldn't find any guide or material that would teach me how to do it. I did everything myself. I researched on my own, I persevered on my own, and I learned from my mistakes on my own. And I'm proud of that.
Of course, there were immediately people who had a lot to say. In addition to constantly pointing out my grammatical errors and commas (when I asked them for help, of course, they all fell silent), I even received comments that I was writing content that "nobody cares about." At the time, I thought, "Hmm, why are you speaking on behalf of everyone? Speak for yourself! Say that YOU'RE not interested." Because, you know what? If you're not interested, there's the door! No one is forcing you to be here.
To find out what my readers actually want, I posted a question on Instagram asking what they would like to read on my blog. I only got two responses. And that's when I came to my conclusion: I'm going to write content that I like. You'll read what I post—if you like it, great, if not, that's fine too. That comment under the post about the progress of my blog, accusing me that no one is interested in what I write, seemed small and meaningless to me from then on. How can anyone dare to judge my efforts in such a way?
My main goal at the beginning was to help at least one person with my experiences. And today I know that I have helped not just one, but many more. This tells me that I am on the right path, regardless of what the critics say. I will not adapt to those who would like the site to be bright if I prefer it dark. I will not correct commas for someone who only bothers me and would not help.
My blog is not perfect and never will be. But it is mine. It is the fruit of my labor, my perseverance, and my growth as a self-taught person. I write content that is close to my heart and that I think could help you discover something new or learn something. If my imperfect world suits you, I am happy to have you on my journey. But if you are only looking for mistakes, I will say it again – there is the door. I am continuing on my path, exactly as I feel!
Hugs, Eva
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