We often hear that it is not good to borrow money because it means taking on an obligation and a burden that can suffocate us. On the other hand, it is not fair to expect that our parents will always help us, especially if we are adults and want to live independently. So where is the line? What is really okay?
Money is the energy of exchange.
When we borrow it, we invite the energy of debt into our lives—the responsibility to pay something back. When we take money from our parents, we accept help that is given out of love, but it can create a feeling of dependence. And when we earn money ourselves, we attract a feeling of pride, freedom, and inner strength into our lives.
When is it okay to accept help?
It is important to understand the intention. If we accept money because there is no other option at the moment—for example, in an emergency—then it is okay. The key is to find a way to balance this energy as soon as possible: either by repaying it, by expressing gratitude, or by passing on the help to someone else one day.
This way, the energy of money does not stop, but continues to flow.
When is it not okay?
It is not okay if money becomes a habit or a way to avoid responsibility.
If we keep waiting for someone to "save" us, then money loses its true value – the value of exchanging effort for reward.
Even when we borrow money without a real purpose or plan, we create an internal debt that can block us in other areas as well – in our self-confidence, in our relationships, in our self-belief.
So what is really okay?
The most honest and healthy thing is to try to earn it ourselves – even if it's just a little.
Every euro that comes from our own work carries the energy of pride, freedom, and creativity.
If we try but are currently unable to succeed, then it is okay to accept help with the awareness that we will one day give this energy back to the world – through work, love, creativity, or support for others.
Money is not just paper or a number. It is a mirror of our inner value.
When we respect it, it comes into our lives at the right moment – not too soon, not too late, but when we are ready to handle it maturely and responsibly.
💡 Tip:
Before accepting or asking for money, ask yourself:
👉 "Am I doing this out of confidence in myself or out of fear that I won't be able to cope?"
If the answer is confidence, then you know you're on the right track.
Hugs,
Eva
Money is not what determines our value – it's how we learn to handle it.
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