How do I view hate comments? Blogmas#1

Today is December 1, which marks the start of Blogmas. This year will be very eventful and interesting, so don't miss the posts! 

In today's post, I'll tell you how I see critics-haters.

For many people, critics are something negative, but in reality it's not quite like that. Critics can also be positive, although they affect us negatively.


 Why?


If it weren't for them, we wouldn't know what we're doing wrong or what we could improve on. They also help us start standing up for ourselves. I learned this myself on Games 123. I know it sounds childish, but it's true. This is a portal where you can play games, chat, write stories. I was badly insulted there because they told me I was ugly. Someone even called me Shrek. It destroyed my self-esteem, but over time I learned to stand up for myself. I realized that it's not so important what others think of me. It's more important what you think of yourself. I say to myself that I'm a queen. One famous person told me I was an empress and two said I was a sweetheart. And both within 14 hours.


I don't think well of myself because two famous people said it, but because I really think I'm great. I like myself exactly the way I am. I will never change to please someone else. If someone doesn't like my personality, they can ignore me without a bad conscience and not change for me. People are different and that's okay. Can you imagine what the world would be like if we were all the same (like sheep, for example)?? I think it would be boring. Can you imagine everyone doing the same job? If there was only one profession in the world? No, that doesn't sound like the real world, does it???

That's why critics are actually people who expect miracles. So, a lot of people have told me that I have grammatical errors. Yes, I do, I won't deny it. I won't stop blogging because of errors (I've already received a comment like that). I don't give up easily and I won't give up. I will do everything to succeed. I am a person who is truly happy with less. There is a saying that says "less is more", which is absolutely true. I am driven by the desire to create something myself with a little help. To be my own "boss". It is much easier to dedicate 12 hours a day to yourself and your work than to work for a stranger. Do you hear that difference?? It's different, isn't it??


Of course, it is different if you work for yourself than for someone else. We all would like that. That's why I have good news for you. I have decided to dedicate next year (2022) to finding and finding a way to find something to start for myself. To work for myself and at the same time help others so that they can start the same with my mentorship. P. S. If you would like to write a blog, write to me on social media and I will be happy to help you get started.

We don't need to be afraid of critics, they are the reason we persist. They give you an audience, they are the essence. Without them, no one is famous and recognizable. That's why we should thank them. Thank you, critics, for writing me comments, keep it up. You can also tell your friends about my blog.


That's the end of today's post, see you tomorrow!!


Rainbow Eva


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