Today, I’m going to talk about accepting our flaws, the concept of perfection, and why society so persistently pushes us to abandon our own standards and accept mediocrity. From a young age, we listen to warnings that we shouldn't have expectations that are too high and that we shouldn't want exactly what we feel in our hearts. We are constantly told to create as many options as possible—whether it comes to partnerships, careers, or hobbies. But let's ask ourselves: why would we need thousands of options if we are actually looking for that one true thing that will truly align with us? It is far better to have just a few options and choose the best among them than to get lost in a flood of choices simply because society says so.
The presence of subtle pressures encouraging us to lower our standards and accept less than what we want stems from other people's insecurities. When it comes to relationships, people often tell us that a perfect partner doesn't exist, as everyone has their flaws. However, it all depends on the lens through which we view the situation. If we choose someone whose small shortcomings or quirks don't bother us at all, then that person is perfect for us in that moment. It is right to know exactly what we want and not to choose something just because of external pressure or fear of being alone. Being alone and working on oneself and one's future is a thousand times better than settling for something that doesn't suit us at all.
The same applies to work and creating our own path. Years ago, back in 2018 and 2019, when I clearly expressed that my vision was working from home, many dismissed it with a wave of their hand, claiming that such a thing simply didn't exist and wasn't feasible. But just a year later, when global circumstances changed the way entire societies operated overnight, working from home became a complete standard. Today, with the development of new technology and artificial intelligence, entirely new jobs are opening up, much like the internet opened up in the past. So, if the vision or job you desire doesn't currently exist in your surroundings, it doesn't mean it isn't possible—you will create it yourself through your sole proprietorship, your blog, and your unwavering persistence.
Accepting yourself and letting go of the fear of making mistakes means ending the search for external validation and trusting that everything will come in its own right time. Don't let societal molds or other people's limitations force you into lowering your standards. Trust your inner compass, educate yourself, learn the rules and laws of the system, and create a life by your own rules. Those who know how to look beneath the surface will recognize the true treasure in this message, while others will simply walk past.
Hugs, Eva
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